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step out to step in

when you enter into someone else’s suffering, take your shoes off. you’re on holy ground.

i spent the weekend carrying the weight of His glory.

now, my heart breathes in the ache of statistics turned faces. it’s easy enough to close my eyes. at any point, i could have walked out of the room instead of listen to the horrors of human trafficking weaving itself into the fabric of our foster care system. i could have shut the browser containing a blog post of a 13 year old boy turned killer – child soldiers within our own country trapped in the war of gang violence. i could have taken the bait. i could have refused to feel. i could have gone numb.

but i didn’t.

and this suffering – this entering into one’s pain in order to pull them out – it’s keeping me up at night.

for six months, i haven’t been able to get away from this pervasive calling to come against one of the biggest monsters in the Christian faith: denial.

if i turn off the tv, my brothers and sisters in libya won’t be in danger.
if i turn up the music, the cries of the little girl in the apartment above me won’t exist.
if i don’t look at pictures of muslims protecting Christians in egypt, they’ll still be people to fear.
if i continue to call prostitutes whores, i won’t have to think about them being victims.
if i don’t look at the man on the side of the road, he won’t need my money.
if i tell someone i’ll pray for them and turn away, their grief will subside.
if i eat this/buy that/drink some, my pain will go away.

i can’t stop thinking about the need for artists to step out to step in – to embrace the suffering in order to reveal the hope. so much of today’s culture closes their eyes to what’s going on right in front of them.  dare we be audacious? dare we sit in the dirt and listen?

this weekend shifted my thinking in a lot of ways, and it also sealed some long worn-out thoughts into place. i feel God slowly moving me toward action – slowly healing me in order to use my legs and lungs of endurance rather than the spasms of passion i’ve relied on before. but in order for this to happen,  i need to step out of my comfort zone and into what brings me most pain. i need to lean in to Him and allow Him the process of stripping me bare so he can make me whole.

i need to step out of myself so He can step in – heart on fire, justice ready and love complete.

being full & broken

Photo courtesy of Dan King

saturday afternoon, as i watched seth & joy share their story, rachel posted on twitter: i had no idea my heart could be full and broken at the same time.

yes.

and so here i sit, placing one foot in front of the other, trying to find a balance i don’t possess at the moment. !c//orphan moved me in a way i didn’t anticipate. i feel it will be awhile before i’m able to accurately find words for what God is doing in my heart, and this is okay. for now, i’ll process through thanks.

1000 gifts: ideacamp

[0026] for my husband who whispers his belief in me at the perfect moment

[0027] new friends, late night chats, and speaking truth

[0028] crayons and rocks marking time and heart jumps

[0029] Jesus-chicken and make-shift watches and rib-splitting laughter

[0030] stick-figured families

[0031] meeting of the minds under pf chang’s lamp warmth – listening to those who dare be audacious in a society of dunces

[0032] the heart-stitching of old friends and new friends

[0033] bringing home beautiful

[0034] living the gospel story

[0035] watching the weighty glory take root in minds and souls

[0036] the god of the fairytale turning into the God of tragedy and ashes.

[0037] seeing His love break and mend through stories

[0038] feeling the darkness tremble at the collective breath of those willing to fight for the least of these

[0039] the holy ground of suffering keeping me awake at night

[0040] my mom heart ripping and making room

if you were at !c//orphan, how are you processing? what whispers are you hearing after the shifting of this weekend?

preemptive orphan care & development – elizabeth styffe

speaker: elizabeth styffe

question: what does it look like for a church to get involved? what does innovative and sustainability have to do with this?
answer: if you’re like me, your vision is way too small. my method use to be, “pay, pray and stay away.”  now, i’m more willing to pray about what God wants me to do.

first, you have to work with the local church. that way, it’s not church based but church initiating. you have to ask: at the end of the day, who is the hero? the truth is we leave. working with the local church and providing them the ability to engage in the community and empower them means the sustainability is there.

it’s a whole process of taking away the idea that it’s about money. you have to empower not just the pastor but the entire church. the greatest untapped resource is the person in the pew. don’t ever do what someone in the local church can do – don’t cut off their hands and feet.

preemptive orphan care & development – scott brown

speaker: @jscottbrown

question: could you speak on the role of the importance of relationship with local governments?
answer: every country wants their children to stay – it’s about digging in and providing opportunities and hope that the government can’t provide. as an agency, people come through the country and you fall in love with the people and the culture. this provides a platform to help the older orphans who would normally end up on the street.

question: as you begin the in-country programs, what are some things you know you have to do right?
answer: i think the things you look at is sustainability and knowing that you can’t just start a project and believe it will run for a few years then you can back out. the local church is the key to sustainability. we hope to make opportunities available for the local church to engage in their community.

preemptive orphan care & development – cristin smith

speaker: @cristinsmith
world vision

question: define transformational development
answer: the process of bringing about positive change in the physical, social, and spiritual realm. when we look at redeeming and restoring children back in their community, we also look at the redemption of the culture.

question: tell me a little about the five fingers of development
answer: water, food, health, education and development – summing up how we communicate Christ’s message without addressing these every day needs? making sure we can communicate and incarnating the gospel in a very tangible way is important to us.

question: if world vision shows up in a community, what questions are you asking?
answer: we’re normally invited in and there’s an immediate posture of learning from the community. asking questions like what are the causes of poverty? we also work with area leaders to create an area development plan in order to instill an educational component and other improvements over the next fifteen years. then we can move them from an impoverished community to a thriving community.

question: what should we do as we approach transformational development?
answer: looking at orphan care through empowerment – really seeing it from a global perspective. it’s not just the american church, it’s the global church. once we grasp this posture, we’re able to redistribute resources – allowing women to keep their children through sponsorship.

question: what are some lessons you learned working through churches?
answer: one of the best places to start is with a vision of the local church. it’s not just about meeting the short-term need of relieving a community, but it’s a long term commitment. together, you’re able to fulfill the great commission. aim for the dignified exchange.

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